By Leah Davies, M.Ed. Forms of Neglect and AbuseNeglect of a child means failing to provide for his or her basic needs. Neglect can be physical, educational or psychological. Physical needs involve providing food, clothing, medical care, and supervision. Suspect physical neglect when these needs are not being met, and when a child is absent often, begs for or steals food or other items, and/or appears unkempt. Educational neglect is defined in some states as occurring when no schooling or special education needs are provided by the parents or caregivers. Psychological neglect occurs when love and support are withheld, when children are exposed to spousal mistreatment, or when alcohol or other drugs are abused and/or are available to a child.Physical abuse occurs when an adult intentionally inflicts physical injury upon a child. It includes punching, shaking, kicking, burning, beating, or otherwise physically hurting a child. Active children acquire some injuries through play that are mostly over bony areas such as knees, elbows, and shins. If a child has injuries on other parts of the body, i.e. black eyes, bite marks, burns, bruises, welts, swelling and/or broken bones, they are more likely to indicate abuse. Additionally, if parents give conflicting or unconvincing explanations for their child's injuries or the child does not receive needed medical attention, physical maltreatment needs to be considered. Emotional abuse happens when adults thwart a child's mental health and/or his or her social, emotional and/or cognitive development. It may include using extreme or bizarre forms of punishment, such as locking the child in a closet or tying him or her to furniture for a long periods of time. Emotional abuse also includes constantly disparaging a child or blaming him or her for family problems. For additional understanding of the emotionally abused child see Emotional Abuse of Children. Sexual abuse is inappropriate sexual behavior between a child and an older person. It includes intercourse, sodomy, oral sex, fondling, prostitution, group sex, pornography, and forcing a child to observe sexual acts. For detailed information concerning sexual abuse and what to do if you suspect it see Helping the Sexually Abused Child. Child abuse and neglect occur in all socioeconomic classes, but families are at greater risk if the caregivers or parents were abused. Groups such as a Parents Anonymous can provide help for abusive adults who want to change their behavior. School personnel have the responsibility to report abuse not only to protect the child, but to stop the cycle of abused children possibly becoming abusive parents. Since schools are often the only place these children go other than their homes, educators play an indispensable role as reporters and protectors of abused or neglected children in their community. Used by permission of the author, Leah Davies, and selected from the Kelly Bear website [www.kellybear.com]. 3/04 Click Below for More. |